More on relationships…

The one who is more emotional and serious in a relationship, always get hurt the most.

A friend said these words. I agree, but not completely.
I think it has got nothing to do with the seriousness, but yeah, the one who is more emotional by nature is the one who end up crying!
Personal experience speaks.
;)

 

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5 Responses to “More on relationships…”

  1. harry Says:
    June 14th, 2008 at 3:43 am

    Being serious would also count…although to a certain extent only…but yeah…being highly emotional…you end up crying like a baby all the time….my personal experience too! :P

  2. Rahul Says:
    June 20th, 2008 at 6:54 pm

    I too agree…. But as they say, no one can hurt you without your permission….. We let people hurt us….

  3. Rohit Khosla Says:
    June 23rd, 2008 at 12:07 pm

    In all relationships..

    u have to respect private space. The other person is an individual and is unlikely to agree to everything u want (altho it could be very meaningfull to you)

    when u are single, u have vast freedom and small social space.

    As u develop relationships, u increase ur social space and constrict ur freedom a little.

    This negotiation between the social space and freedom is the stuff of relationship. Both the parties to the relationship have to negotiate what they are willing to sacrifice, what they are willing to give and what they want from the other party.

    Some people require lots of private space (I am one of them!) and you have to enter into the relationship with that in mind. Informed consent.

    Rohit

  4. Ruchika Pandit Says:
    June 23rd, 2008 at 7:50 pm

    rohit: space is important, i agree.

  5. Sujal Says:
    August 30th, 2008 at 4:32 pm

    Agreed with Rohit.

    Nice blog Ruchika.

    Keep it up.

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