Whats wrong with Indian male..??
It was not for the first time that I experienced this kind of behavior from them. And it was not for the first time that i reacted in this manner! What happened was that i was kinda molested by a guy in the metro. And what I did was something I always do…I gave this person a tight slap! People standing around were a bit shocked..but then, I never give damn. What is more shocking is that as***le even didn’t has the sense to say sorry or something…he started arguing with me. It was getting out of my control….then a sensible looking uncle stood up from his seat and slapped this chap! Now it was his turn. He told me ” main dekh loonga”, and then he got down at the next station….and am still wondering that what will this guy “dekh lega”???
When I narrated the whole incidence to a friend, she told me not to create such scenes. You can never say about Delhi guys…they can do anything to take revenge. She tried to warn me…but what the heck?? I seriously do not posses something known as control or patience. And why should i tolerate these bloody bastards??
So…even after getting so called’ sensible’ advice from dear friend, Ruchika Pandit is not scared at all. She will keep doing what she is good at. She will keep beating the shit of these nasty , ugly and frustrated creatures.
March 4th, 2008 at 3:41 am
Girl power is OK, but I would rather suggest you keep those TVC chilli sprays and just sprinkle some in their eyes. Renders them motionless, in the meantime you can move to a safe place.
It does work in the ads, don’t know if you would have the time in real life to take it out from your bag, remove the cap and press the top.
The problem with the Indian male is probably excess of freedom. Another reason that I know for such incidents is this.
Whatever be the reason, you have two things that you can do. Either choose to be a feminist, fight for the cause. Or you can plan a little and make only yourself safe; and be happy. Fuck the world. The choice is obviously your own.
March 4th, 2008 at 4:24 am
and i thought delhi metro was a safe enough place.
the best solution was to alert a security guard at the next station and file an official complaint.
i am sure that guy would have been taken into custody. or so i hope.
March 4th, 2008 at 1:08 pm
apoorv: heh…i do carry that chilli spray with me. in fact i have used it once. but one cant use it in metro or bus considering the density of crowd. it can hurt many other people. it works when u are travelling alone…walking down a secluded road.
and i think the problem with the indian male lies in the kind of brought up they get. and the kind of atmosphere they grow in.
March 4th, 2008 at 1:20 pm
anonymous: well….no place in delhi is safe enough for women. and yeah…i agree with you, i should have filed a proper complaint against this guy.
but i was so much engrosed by anger that i couldnt help myself.
March 5th, 2008 at 2:30 am
well not only u did a brave thin, u did a right thin too. da only way 2 teach a lesson 2 these sociopaths is 2 kick thr ass. n 4 da “dekh lega” part m sure he was bluffin cuz “bad mein kya dekhe ga us time tu nai dikh rahi thee kya
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March 5th, 2008 at 3:37 am
nice! that’s exactly what should be done. I even encourage my sister to carry around a swiss knife and stab it into any such bastards she meets.
TVC sprays are really no use unless you keep them uncapped and in your hand at all times.
Buy a gun, maybe..
March 5th, 2008 at 4:56 pm
sneezy melon: carrying a gun will be fun!
i may give it a try!
March 6th, 2008 at 10:14 am
I would say ‘Bravo! Sis!’
March 6th, 2008 at 10:48 pm
jaiks: i have zero tolerance….