Hating or disliking???
Is saying that you hate someone really a strong expression??
Suhasini said it is. There is this guy in my class whom I dont like at all. And I dont like him to such an extent that I wont mind saying that I hate him.
On this, my dear friend told me that I should not be using the word ‘hate’ over here. But I think that I should not be telling people what they want to hear or what pleases their sensibilities. I should be telling them the truth, even if it hurts!! Because that is what people have been doing to me all the time. Its not like I am giving the world what I have received from it. Its like I am doing the right thing. I think people should know the reality, I think its totally unfair to keep them in any kind of illusion. And if I hate anyone, I can say it on his face. And if I love someone, I can tell this also very easily. I guess there is something with me, I dont feel shy yaar!!
I guess am not girl enough, or lets put it this way- I am not ‘TYPICAL INDIAN’ girl enough!
And yeah…I hate you ‘the guy in my class’!!
February 13th, 2008 at 4:16 am
Personally i like ppl who have the guts to call a Spade “a Spade”.but we live in a multi faceted world n hidin truth is as much imp 2day as tellin it. followin a diplomatic road is da best way to survive in this world. so my dear Ruchika pandit no matter how much u hate this guy u shouln’t disclose it in public.n believe me itz not abt “girl enough” or “indian girl enough” thin…it finally comes down 2 u n ur damn attitude to handle it.
February 14th, 2008 at 12:53 am
my dear missing code, i am one person, and i cant behave like two…so…if i hate anyone i will say it. i really cant be diplomatic…its something about my basic nature.
February 14th, 2008 at 2:13 am
Well u just gonna have 2 learn it….thrz no place 4 goody goody girl in this fucked up world. u gotta be a bitch 2 survive.rest up 2 u…Peace
February 16th, 2008 at 1:46 am
i am having fun dear…i dont think i need to change.
peace..!!
February 17th, 2008 at 7:03 pm
dis shows tht u a real honest person n don’t giv a fuck bout dis world u jst do wat u like n dats d best thing tht’s jst so like me..
February 18th, 2008 at 5:17 pm
February 19th, 2008 at 2:05 am
hmmmmm i dunno i mean em not sure abt de word hatred…i think i dun hate neone, i think i dunlike someone wud be good enough for me,ill tell u story when i was in school i thot i hated everyone every damn guy who did nething…but later when i got out of school and met em after school i realised dey were nice and i had no reasons to hate’em.i juss think dat when u grow up u realise dat u hate a lot less things dan u think u do……i mean its more like who gives a ####,let’em do what dey wanna…..and yeah one more thing i think hatred is de root cause of many a sorrows and bad things and it starts from de words…..” I HATE HIM/HER OR WHATEVER”…….so when u take dat word out of de equation may be its gonna do more good dan bad:)
February 19th, 2008 at 12:30 pm
hey rahul, am pretty sure about my feelings for this particular guy.
and i really dont hesitate in telling him the the same.
my case is a bit different buddy!