Mumblings by Ruchika Pandit

I just realised that tomorrow it will be whole good six months. I mean our six months! I mean Mrs. Ruchika Mittal’s six months! Six months of living in new home! Six months of living in new state! Six months of change! Six months of happiness (a bit of crying too)! Six months of sharing things! Six months of new Mom! Six months of new Papa! Six months of new family! Six roller coaster months!

How much cliched it may sound, but life has surely changed a lot. I have gained many many things i.e. weight. Have said good bye to many things i.e. aajtak! Have learnt many things.

I am different person. Well, not much, but yeah, a slightly different being.

Overall I have spent some nice memorable moments of my life. Thanks Sushubh.

Ruchika Pandit > Ruchika Mittal

No. I am just being very busy.

Can someone please tell me what is the good, or should I say decent way to end a telephonic conversation?
Should one end it with saying goodbye, goodnight and take care stuff.
Or one should just disconnect the call without even giving a slightest hint that he or she is going to do this.
Or one should just cut the call without answering the other person’s bye and take care stuff?

It can be true that you are in love with the wrong person.
And it can also be true that you yourself are not the right one to love that person.

The one who is more emotional and serious in a relationship, always get hurt the most.

A friend said these words. I agree, but not completely.
I think it has got nothing to do with the seriousness, but yeah, the one who is more emotional by nature is the one who end up crying!
Personal experience speaks.

Ever tried to hold the sand in your hands? Very tightly? I tried. And failed. Miserably!
One cannot always get what one wants. I have realized this. It’s painful at times. But one has to accept it.
The sand has left my hands. Completely I guess. I tried very hard. I think that’s the only reason for my failure.
One should never push things beyond their limits. Especially when it comes to relationships.

This is the height. I keep on making excuses of not getting enough time to blog. And I make these excuses to no one else, but to myself. Shame on me.

Anyway, someone told me that blogging without journalistic approach is of no use.
Some other person said that blogging is nothing but just a manipulated form of writing a personal journal.
Another mouth opened and said that you do blogging to please other people.
A very dear friend said that he blogs for himself, to take out his frustrations and anger.

Hmm…. I am surrounded by too many opinions.

I would say that don’t have any particular reasons for this purpose. It depends on my mood why I blog. If am very happy, I will post a few lines here, if am utterly sad then I will post a few thoughts here. And if I am irritated, then also I will let my feelings flow over this medium.
It depends, it entirely depends on my mood.

Professional life is rocking.
Personal life is on the rocks.

But the good part is, I am used to it now. It’s been two years you see. And I know things will be normal soon, very soon. I just need to show some patience.
They say that learning from other’s mistakes is a sign of smart people. I am the one who doesn’t learn from her mistakes. That ways, I am super dumb I guess. I make the same mistake again and again.
Any way, apart from this, life is good.

I am enjoying my work. And, at last, I have learnt newsroom management. (that is what they call it!) It’s very rare that I get frustrated because of incompatibility of others. I am getting used to it slowly and steadily. In fact, I find these news people funny at times. Most of them have lost their sensibility. No, seriously, I am not joking. May be I will also lose it someday. I really don’t know. Looking at the way I am enjoying this work, this is the most predictable thing.
And yeah, I am going to a lot of page 3 parties these a days. And that deserves an entire post. I will discuss that later. Time to grab some grub!

I have been occupied like hell for the past few days. And hence, not been able to fill up this space as regularly as I should be doing it. In addition to that, I am not feeling well for the past one week. Delhi is burning in May, but I am suffering from cold, cough, fever and god alone knows what. So, I would blame my bad bad health and the bad bad weather and the bad bad work schedule behind me not updating this space. I am such a shameless chick you see. :p
And yeah. How can I forget the most vital reason behind scarce blogging by me! My dear brother! He is the one to blame for not giving me the workstation! One can also site a good explanation in my crappy net connectivity!
See, I am so good at making lame excuses!